Are you married to a pastor who is controlling, manipulative, and passive-aggressive? Does he constantly blame you for things he's doing? Does he constantly play the victim and act like everyone else is against him? Does he often twist the truth and even use the bible against you? Does he conveniently have amnesia when you bring up something he said or did? Do you get the response, "I never said that. I never did that?" If these are some of the things you're dealing with or have dealt with, you may be married (or were married) to a narcissist, particularly a covert narcissist.

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