Having sex for the first time comes with a lot of fairytale expectations. Movies, TV shows, books, and made-up stories make us think that losing our virginity should involve lots of romance, wooing, declarations of love, and beautiful locations. In reality, things are… well, not even nearly that great. In fact, most people find that their first time having sex actually kind of sucks. Even if you do it with the right person and you feel okay about it afterwards, your first time is probably going to be awkward, uncomfortable, a little painful, and maybe even embarrassing. Cheyenne has the harsh truth right here if you don’t believe us – watch the video to see for yourself!