5 Signs Your Relationship Isn't Heading Toward Marriage Does it feel like marriage may not be in the cards for your relationship? Pay attention to these 5 red flags. 1. If your partner avoids using "we" statements, they may not be ready to take the plunge. 2. A resistance to try new things might mean your relationship is
growing stale. 3. Repeated breaking up and making up
could show that you can't move on from
the same old problems. 4. If your partner has an overly negative attitude, marriage is not going to solve that. 5. If you haven't spent much time talking about the future, marriage may not play well for you two.