Yesterday PM Muhyiddin Yassin met with China's visiting Defense Minister, Wei Fenghe who promised ASEAN to "meet each other halfway". But does China in fact want SEA countries to pick a side, in its rivalry with the US? Must ASEAN choose between US and China? Melisa Idris and Sharaad Kuttan speak to Ivy Kwek, Research Director, Research for Social Advancement (REFSA).