So you found out your boyfriend is on Tinder. Does that mean he’s cheating? The truth is, whether or not he’s cheating isn’t the point. I’ll tell you why, in some cases, using tinder is actually worse than cheating and more of a red flag in a relationship. I’ll also tell you how to have the conversation with your partner about getting off dating apps, what to do if you find out your boyfriend is still on tinder, and what tinder means for exclusivity these days.

Hi, I’m Amy North. I’m a relationship coach and love expert from Canada. I’ve been writing about love and relationships for years and Tinder truly has changed the dating game forever by making dating way more accessible. But with Tinder has come unforeseen wrinkles in modern relationships, including the question we’re covering today.