Couple Activities for Rejuvenating Your Marriage - as part of the expert series by GeoBeats. Couple Activities for Rejuvenating Your Marriage If your marriage has slipped into a little bit of a lull and needs a little spicing up, what I recommend is to go to a local nice hotel, have a spa day, or a spa weekend, have someone watch the kids or the dogs, whatever. And even if it’s down the street, pretend you’ve gone to an exotic place. And it’s amazing how that can revitalize your marriage. And also, do take on a new hobby. For instance, “Oh, let’s take up kayaking. Let’s go and rent a kayak and do that,” and see how you like it. If you don’t like that, you try something else. Create new rituals with each other keeps the marriage fresh.