Etiquette: Small Talk Tips - as part of the expert series by GeoBeats. When making small talk with strangers, remember to keep these tips in mind: You can comment on the obvious - the centerpieces, the food - everyone loves to talk about food, or how do you know the host and hostess. Or if you notice that that person is wearing a beautiful pin, you might want to comment and say something like "Oh, that's a gorgeous pin! Where did you get that?" There is usually always a history behind unusual jewelery. Or if that person is wearing a beautiful tie, comment on that as well. Or if that person made a speech that day, or won an award; congratulate that person because everyone enjoys compliments. Remember: Keep the conversation light and upbeat. Small talk is power talk; it builds relationships, and relationships builds good business.